march is coming to an end and i have yet to find a temp job. sigh. am i useless or what. simply lazy n not taking initiative and expecting my pops to feed me at 21. i feel bad. honestly i do. and i so wanna earn my money so that i can spend it like nobodys biz and make myself happy. but it seems far-fetched now. sians.

submitted application for RMIT mktg.. needed smthg to fall back on in case i dont get the unisim application. sigh. smtimes i really wonder what the heck im doing. and of course i always regret not studying hard enough during o's and even in poly days. but one cant turn back time, and so i shall no longer waste time pouring out all my regrets. am determine to do well if i go back to sch. infact i already miss the good old days of schooling. even tho it aint rosy all the time, i sure had my fair share of fun too. at least things werent so complicated back then. or at least i didnt have to make any major decisions. all i had to do was to attend lectures, do my tutorials, study for exams. nt like nw where i have to decide whether to study, and if so to study what, or to work...

i really hate growing up. and seeing hw low human beings stoop just to get recognized/popular/power - the thought of it just gross me out. i believe no one is perfect, but the fact that ive seen ppl descend to such depths to manipulate others ----> way too ugly. but despite all these, i have to try and love. almost impossible. dont know how im gonna get it done. its okay if u aint a christian, sad thing is, you are. im disappointed.

looking back, i realised certain issues have arised time and again and i certainly chose to ignore it. IGNORANCE IS BLISS. how apt eh. everyones getting tired. physically/mentally/emotionally. but yet we can't give up, else the game's over. much as i hate making empty promises, i keep doing it. so i blame no one for the predicament im in.

what a night! was watching tv in the evening and my brother came running outta his room and told me bout it. sort of witness a suicide. oh wells. saw the dead body covered up with a white plastic. then the police flip over the plastic and took pictures of the dead corpse, then they actually flip the body over to take more pics! omg. thot i was gonna pengsan. kinda sad actually. saw the kins crying hysterically. what a way to die. imagine jumping off a building. and theres the poor nehneh who had to clean up the bloody mess. DAMN SAD CAN!!! sigh. my heart goes out to the family mann. anyway, this area is like warped la. one day funeral, one day ppl getting married, and another day smone jumping off the building. seriously freaking me out. shudder*

been rotting at home for 4 wholesome days! boo. super sians! need to get outta house soon!

went to the clinic on thurs with twinnie! oh my and what a disappointment. there was no proper dance floor and the crowd was really old and all. more like a bar than anything else. and the interior doesnt make it a clinic. guess we'll nv head back there anymore. got outta tt place pretty soon and walked ard the cannery to take peektures! and to our surprise we saw a bapok, all the boobs spilling out. eeks.

ecp with cellies ytd. thanks to bestie who offered to ride a double bike with me since i cant cycle. ohwells actually i can just that theres this phobia which actually exists. and makes me HATE cycling. but i really do apprec all that she've done la. tho i appear super pissed. sigh. cannot control my emotions. arghhh. hate it. but the miniature viking we took it to a high. at least it ended on a fun note! cosmo grp again, but guess it wasnt too bad afterall. we kept on and on laughing like forever. was damn farnie to see their faces and hear the incessant screams! wahhaa... nt too bad..

and today we were totally shagged, head bk home to nap before watching virgin suicides which was well, a bit warped. the stoic and astute cecillia.. scaryyyy!! living life as a dreamer. gdness. and the promiscuous sexual encounters on the roof. mystical...!anyway it tells of the suicides of the Lisbon girls, 5 sisters, and that there was nv a truly satisfying answer as to why they attempted suicide. pretty interestin i guess.. hehs.

anyway, hate the politics in church and all.. so much so much. totally grossed out by all these ppl. all wanting to vie for power and all. like wtf. its so disgusting. like hello wheres the democracy? and in case u dont know, i am not, and will never be on the same league as u. sorry if i led u on! and to hell with the stupid ppl with have gt no guts, no balls too. nt sure even if u have a willy. if only u wil steer clear of the ppl i love, the ppl i hang out with, the ppl i like, i would get down on my knees and thnk u. for nw, BUGGER OFF.

talking to certain ppl can just make me vomit blood. worstill when they are yr church friends. thot we were supposed to be encouraging and say things to build each other up and not tear them down, but why do i often get the other? im so grossed out by my churchmates. shameful thing to say. i jolly well know that no one is perfect but im just beginning to see more and more of the ugly sides of them. sigh. its really saddening la. i mean if u cannot be happy for me, then just leave it, dont cont to shower me with yr cynical responses. honestly i dont need them at all. why cant u ever ever be happy for me? u selfish little bitch. suddenly it all seems so bleak to me.

that aside, went to jb with dot n her pops ytd morn, got cheap thrills again! lurveee the good bargains i got.hehs. a pity we were there for just a few hours! then bk to twinnie's hm and napped before discipleship, which wasnt too bad ytd. usually i would have dreaded it but ytd's one turn out to be pretty okay. had supps at macs then gt a lift hm..

stay home thurs but not sure if shd go clinic tonight with twinnie to check it out since she gt the invite. hehs. seems pretty happening! 2nd thots im scared to go clubbing haha sounds sillyy i know. will prolly jus cower behind twinnie again... wahahaa... til then~!

escapade to tras street, haji lane with twinnie ytd! all the vintage shops there were uber cool but prices there were rocket high la. and the shops were really intimidating, was practically hiding behind twinnie each time we enter a shop. anyway, nthing much, unless u r a celebrity, have tons of money, cant be seen elsewhere, then shop at that narrow little alley! HAHA. anw, twinnie have been absolutely sweet with all the favors and treats knowing her fren's a pauper now, with zero net worth. just wondering when i wil ever get a job and return her all the favors. dont feel very good, dont want her to have idea that im sponging off her. ugh. but anw, its really nice to have a fren whos there 24/7 in times of need!

anw, was talking to crystal earlier on and talked abt the wrong reasons of gg church. seems like a fashion parade to her.in fact having so much pressure to dress to impress, and simply to kill. and how i agree on the stupid haughty looks of girls who frequent topshop and all. gross. sigh. hope im nt falling into it too. hate the rat race! but seems to me that im finding myself trapped too. gonna go repent soon. sigh.

its a stay home tues so means piano, tv,disciple and packing of room (YES, AGAIN). really hope i'll get admitted to sch. ugh.cross fingers and toes. if only i can contort, i'll gladly do that. haa. ciao.

its like a BRAND NEW KIND OF FEAR. and the weird thing is its STRANGE. and kinda like "edscipleba" im scared. cos it doesnt make too much sense to me. ugh.

just when i thought it was all over, i was wrong. )=

over for a swim n tan at the madeira. but of cos things didnt pretty much turn out the way i wanted it to be. i wonder how many times we have to go thru all the misunderstandings/miscommunications. im really exhausted this time. perhaps it was my fault, but nv did i want things to end up this way. sigh. arghhh. dont know to feel sad or to fume with anger. this is so confusing. ahhhhhhhhhhh. GRRRR.

i need a job d.e.s.p.e.r.a.t.e.l.y. if only smone would drop a blank cheque from above. i'd be over the moon. and of course big fat hope.

honestly, does it pay to be nice? seems to me that its always better to mind your own business. ohwells. whats life without its incessant troubles? pffft.

im glad we kissed and made up, and things can never get any better! had a wild time yesterday, combing the whole of clarke quay! thanks to my lovely fren who did a pretty good job as a tour guide, prior to years of wking at the area and having so many wonderful ideas!! such as the pretty canopies! hee. checked out the clinic, and went walking ard in Central. kinda sucky in there, all the bad infrastructure, and the excessive escalators. haha. conclusion: we'll nt go back there anymore! hee.. walked along the stretch, realised the hooters' girls havent got much of a butt nwadays. (titst too)! HAHA. oops. trigger happy many times too. hehs. then over to chinatown for dinnerrr and then we walk bk to MICA to take a bus home. it was a happy day coated with boisterous laughters, silly antics, and the best company one can ever have. hehs. thank God for my sillygoosefren. am just glad we got over the stupid incident. hope that such will never happen again, cos im gonna try my best to be a good girl.

that aside, am having sm problems deciphering where i shd go study. sm options are so exp, so basically they are out of the list. what fancies me most now shd be a deg in communication studies and english lang. seems pretty fun but my only concern is that its gonna be night classes and also on sat..boo.. cos its mainly catered for wking professionals. sians. plus they require a 2 yr wking exp in order to apply.. so i just sent an email enquiring abt it. sigh. night classes are nonsense! having classes from 7.30-10.30? like duh. and 2.30-5.30 on sat? just WRONG. and gross altogether. sigh. pray that God will lead me thru all of it. and im supp to like register by the end of this mth which is like really soon. mass comm sounds gd too, but its a part time course. yikes. another one which i actually considered was translation and interpretation! hee. eng n chi of course. hehs. sounds pretty cool but both my eng n chi are neither here nor there, so im unsure again. ahhh/ just hope that God will make known to me what He has in store for me...!

ciaooooooooooo

wondering if its time to take a hiatus fr blogging, or simply change blog add. smhw feel it aint so safe anymore. then again, this is for me to rant my frustrations, nt up to u to judge me whatsoever.

and if history ever repeats again, i sure dont know what to do anymore. i knew it was never going to be easy, but once again i fell. im so tired of it all, wanna take a break and go smwhere where i can be left alone to ponder all my wrongdoings. (or perhaps u shd bear part of it) i did try. i tried very hard, yet u saw through it all. no matter how hard i hide, it was just futile. the grass is greener on the other side. how many times have i heard it, i lost count. but i will keep trying and not let the devil get a foothold of me. its going to get really tough, and the path to come seems difficult. im nt sure how i can ever live up to it all. sigh.

but in retrospect, for all that happened, i played a big part. it all sparked off bcos of me, and it ended up that way bcos of me. was wandering if i shd shun it or just let it remain like this. bawled my eyes out and had a hard time falling asleep but who knows? haha... wallowing in self-pity TIME AND AGAIN. if only i dont take things so hard, stop making comparisons, be thankful for everything, i wouldnt have to make myself suffer like this.

maybe i'll just wake up and it would all just fade off and never haunt me again. let's just h.o.p.e.

and maybe it would do us good if u would keep your promises. cos i promise i'll try to be good.